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Monday, August 23, 2010
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
R.E.S.P.E.C.T. What does it mean to you?
There're this 10 rules for respect someone once promised to live by, and it too kinda intrigued me as I walk through life and realise that such rules of those who have "been there, done that" will save you from unnecessary heartaches.
Here are his rules:
1. If you have a problem with me, come to me (privately).
2. If I have a problem with you, I’ll come to you (privately).
3. If someone has a problem with me and comes to you, send them to me. (I’ll do the same for you.)
4. If someone consistently will not come to me, say, “Let’s go see him together.” (I’ll do the same for you.)
5. Be careful how you interpret me. On matters that are unclear, do not feel pressured to interpret my feelings or thoughts. It is easy to misinterpret intentions.
6. I will be careful how I interpret you.
7. If it’s confidential, don’t tell. If anyone comes to me in confidence, I won’t tell unless (a) the person is going to harm him/herself; (b) the person is going to physically harm someone else; (c) a child has been physically or sexually abused. I expect the same from you.
8. I do not read unsigned letters or notes.
9. I do not manipulate; I will not be manipulated. Do not let others manipulate you; do not let others try to manipulate me through you.
10. When in doubt, just say it. If I can answer without misrepresenting something or breaking a confidence, I will.
Most people greatly desire the respect of their leaders. And when leaders give it freely, I believe it creates a very positive relational environment. As author Alfred Glasow said, “The respect of those you respect is worth more than the applause of the multitude.”
- Posted from my iPhone
Here are his rules:
1. If you have a problem with me, come to me (privately).
2. If I have a problem with you, I’ll come to you (privately).
3. If someone has a problem with me and comes to you, send them to me. (I’ll do the same for you.)
4. If someone consistently will not come to me, say, “Let’s go see him together.” (I’ll do the same for you.)
5. Be careful how you interpret me. On matters that are unclear, do not feel pressured to interpret my feelings or thoughts. It is easy to misinterpret intentions.
6. I will be careful how I interpret you.
7. If it’s confidential, don’t tell. If anyone comes to me in confidence, I won’t tell unless (a) the person is going to harm him/herself; (b) the person is going to physically harm someone else; (c) a child has been physically or sexually abused. I expect the same from you.
8. I do not read unsigned letters or notes.
9. I do not manipulate; I will not be manipulated. Do not let others manipulate you; do not let others try to manipulate me through you.
10. When in doubt, just say it. If I can answer without misrepresenting something or breaking a confidence, I will.
Most people greatly desire the respect of their leaders. And when leaders give it freely, I believe it creates a very positive relational environment. As author Alfred Glasow said, “The respect of those you respect is worth more than the applause of the multitude.”
- Posted from my iPhone
Saturday, August 14, 2010
What does RESPECT mean to u?
The other day I read an entry off someone's blog, and he took it off someone else's blog too, simply cos he was too impacted by the entry.
So here I am making a mental note that I should be hunting for it once I get my hands on a comp, or an iPhone battery booster for that matter (gonna be out the whole day today)
So, what does respect mean to u?
- Posted from my iPhone
So here I am making a mental note that I should be hunting for it once I get my hands on a comp, or an iPhone battery booster for that matter (gonna be out the whole day today)
So, what does respect mean to u?
- Posted from my iPhone
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Words with Friends Free
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
happy birthday Singapore!
i lurve themed days! i seriously thought i would end up looking silly on my way to the office. but since i am juz gonna make the dash from the car to the office. and prolly juz zoomed back home immediately, i donned myself in RED and WHITE! wahahahha!
and then, there was this "photo taking session", cos they wanted to send some patriotic looking photos to ISTP. so i aint the only silly looking one. hahaha!
but norman had to collect some props to take another pic! i contributed the flag! and no prize for answering who the hello kitty tissue boxes belong to! bleh!
and then, there was this "photo taking session", cos they wanted to send some patriotic looking photos to ISTP. so i aint the only silly looking one. hahaha!HAPPY BIRTHDAY SINGAPORE!
birthday!
it's joann's birthday! and wat fun is it to have a themed bday celebration! i tink i shld have one too, HELLO KITTY theme. hahaha! tis is JOANN. she's looking abnormal today, on normal days, she looks like... BARNEY!
first the CARD
den the CAKE. we cant find barney the cake so we got his friend doraemon instead. both look equally silly, so it's ok. haha.
den the PRESENT. not from us, a supplement from misa, but it's so silly looking i had to take a photo of it! hahaha.
OH MY, dun understand why BARNEY is so popular among the kids. FAINTS.
first the CARD
den the CAKE. we cant find barney the cake so we got his friend doraemon instead. both look equally silly, so it's ok. haha.
den the PRESENT. not from us, a supplement from misa, but it's so silly looking i had to take a photo of it! hahaha.
OH MY, dun understand why BARNEY is so popular among the kids. FAINTS.of iPhones and price discrimination!
i got myself this! yes yes i know it's FAKE Burberry's INSPIRED but come on, we cant deny that the checks are pretty right? after all, that's wat makes Burberry's famous! haha..
anyway, speaking of PRICE DISCRIMINATION, i got this at our dear neighbor's place... JB. saw it once on an online blog selling for SGD 12. and i got mine at RM 10! hahahaha! hahahaha! hahahaha!
the shopkeeper was kind enough to reduce the price from RM 19 to RM 10, cos it was our National Day holiday! WIN WIN!
btw, i changed my protective screen too! at RM 10 too! sim lim does it for SGD 10.
hearts our dear neighbor CAN! =)
the shopkeeper was kind enough to reduce the price from RM 19 to RM 10, cos it was our National Day holiday! WIN WIN!
btw, i changed my protective screen too! at RM 10 too! sim lim does it for SGD 10.
hearts our dear neighbor CAN! =)
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHC!
i can't believe it! CHC is 21!
i've been in this place for the longest time... say, 11 years? nah, it's not the duration that counts, what really matters is, this is HOME.
i've learned, i've loved, i've been hurt (yes, tis aint exactly the most perfect place, but then again, where is?), i've grown up, but most importantly, i'm still here. i can't be more thankful for the leaders over my life. they taught me what it means to love, unconditionally.
over the weekend, we went for Festival of Praise for 2 consecutive nights, and managed to wake up early for the anniversary svc. i am still young! and proud of mama and papa too! they're in the Q even before me!
i've been in this place for the longest time... say, 11 years? nah, it's not the duration that counts, what really matters is, this is HOME.
i've learned, i've loved, i've been hurt (yes, tis aint exactly the most perfect place, but then again, where is?), i've grown up, but most importantly, i'm still here. i can't be more thankful for the leaders over my life. they taught me what it means to love, unconditionally.
over the weekend, we went for Festival of Praise for 2 consecutive nights, and managed to wake up early for the anniversary svc. i am still young! and proud of mama and papa too! they're in the Q even before me!
HOW AWESOME IS THIS PLACE. THE GATE OF HEAVEN.
we won!
i have to say, life's not always bleak in the office.
entered into a green initiative quiz at the end of last month, and guess wat! we both won! early bird prizes!
it goes to show one thing: we are VERY aunty. "everything muz win!" (but ad is more AUNTY than me, so she came in third!)
entered into a green initiative quiz at the end of last month, and guess wat! we both won! early bird prizes!
it goes to show one thing: we are VERY aunty. "everything muz win!" (but ad is more AUNTY than me, so she came in third!)
FOOD!
Monday, August 2, 2010
JAY CHOU WORLD TOUR!
remember this?
the hand is back again! with a vengeance! ha!
this time, with more PROPS! hahha! the big blow up clap clap! (i stoopidly tot that muz blow with the mouth manually de lo!)
incidentally, the police outside SIS also have something lidat... do they recycle the light sticks after concerts?
**********how could i even forget uploading some pics from the JAY CHOU WORLD TOUR?!
arrrr! he's so talented *screams!* albeit the fact that he does mumble in his songs once in a while, there was really a huge improvement from the times of 双节棍。。。
and how could anyone even comment/criticise that he's unprofessional by using HUGE chorus boards? i think its ok ah! and i have deluded-ly insisted that he sang the following... FOR ME. hahaha!
COLORFUL SPECIAL EFFECTS!



anyone game for the another of the world tour? taipei or KL. haha.SURELY it's not too late!
it's surely not too late to celebrate a birthday, much less to upload photos! ha!
it's SURELY's bday celebration at KBox! we had a tiny room for the few of us, furbished with a CRT TV (i mean, who on earth uses CRT TVs nowadays?!?) but since, it's $8 NETT and we were simply too kiam siap to head to the new Kbox at *Scape, we settled for ahem, less.
well, the only pics worth uploading should be the bday present! PRETTY calender of JAY CHOU! airflown!
and of cos me, attempting to murder surely so that i can get hold of the calender. haha!

it's SURELY's bday celebration at KBox! we had a tiny room for the few of us, furbished with a CRT TV (i mean, who on earth uses CRT TVs nowadays?!?) but since, it's $8 NETT and we were simply too kiam siap to head to the new Kbox at *Scape, we settled for ahem, less.
well, the only pics worth uploading should be the bday present! PRETTY calender of JAY CHOU! airflown!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SURELY!
Saturday, July 31, 2010
what's true about me?
| You Are Independent |
![]() You hate it when people try to control you. Responsibilities tend to bum you out. You like to stand out in a crowd and you definitely turn heads. You are fun and fearless. People envy your courage. |
Friday, July 30, 2010
LV = LoVe..
SPEAK NOW!
... or forever hold your peace...
ah well, i've been taught that "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit."
seriously, i'm filled with nothing but disdain for a particular co-worker. does she know that truths (or gossips/backbitings for that matter) will eventually find their way to you, even after a long while. in any case, yes, the office and the working world is filled with rats, snakes and vultures, waiting to devour u at any opportunity. they might be sitting next to you even.
and i have people whom i was sincerely trying to help. who turned around and bit the hand that feeds them. i am not really very tolerant of such people. in fact, i would seriously hope they disappear from my life. *roar*
alright, in any case, i've also been taught that "Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance." Nope, i aint particularly masochistic enough to love them. i juz love my God that's all.
ah well, i've been taught that "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit."
**********
seriously, i'm filled with nothing but disdain for a particular co-worker. does she know that truths (or gossips/backbitings for that matter) will eventually find their way to you, even after a long while. in any case, yes, the office and the working world is filled with rats, snakes and vultures, waiting to devour u at any opportunity. they might be sitting next to you even.
**********
and i have people whom i was sincerely trying to help. who turned around and bit the hand that feeds them. i am not really very tolerant of such people. in fact, i would seriously hope they disappear from my life. *roar*
**********
alright, in any case, i've also been taught that "Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance." Nope, i aint particularly masochistic enough to love them. i juz love my God that's all.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Foodie Folder
Recently, I've finally decided to create a foodie folder to organize my clutter of photos everywhere, iPhone, SD card, 'My Documents' folder, desktop, or anywhere they can plant themselves in.
And it's so far so good! I suppose that it serves as a constant reminder, that whilst I have INPUT, I should also exercise my fats away!
Perhaps juz someday I can upload some fats-shedding photos. Ha!
- Posted from my iPhone
And it's so far so good! I suppose that it serves as a constant reminder, that whilst I have INPUT, I should also exercise my fats away!
Perhaps juz someday I can upload some fats-shedding photos. Ha!
- Posted from my iPhone
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Curiosity does not always kill the cat. :)
"Although there may be nothing new under the sun, what is old is new to us & so rich & astonishing that we never tire of it. If we do tire of it, if we lose our curiosity, we've lost something of infinite value, because to a high degree it is curiosity that gives meaning & savour to life."
- Posted from my iPhone
- Posted from my iPhone
Friday, July 16, 2010
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
island life; love it!
sentosa days are fun... the nights are magic!
dun we all LURVE sentosa! the only thing that had changed since the last time i came, was that now, i am furiously applying sunblock! all thanks to the aunties around me who are constantly feeding me with the harmful effects of UV rays... blah blah blah... and so i bought this bottle of sunblock that has "COLLAGEN PROTECT". pricey for a small bottle, but worth the while! tadah~!
and tis is definitely something which i will NOT do... bake in the sun... leave it for the kids, haha....
and tis is ANOTHER thing i will prolly not do too.. dun wan to end up breaking my bones!
something i'll do? pose and take pictures... while sipping red wine and eating sugar coated strawberries, kidding.
and the most vigorous activity, captain's ball (which we had managed to lose miserably, zzz.)
ISLAND LIFE, LOVE IT!
Saturday, July 10, 2010
tis is such a funny quiz!
but i like the results! ha!
| You Are A Modernist |
![]() You are an energetic, on the go type of person. You don't slow down for anyone! You are sophisticated and classy. You don't try to grab attention, but you always get plenty of it anyway. You are rich in personality, spirit, and probably even wealthy. You never flaunt your advantages. |
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